There are two main groups going to night clubs. One or two couples and they get at a table to enjoy the music, the dancing and the social conversation between them. What is the purpose of going to a night club if the group is all women or all men? For some, it’s just to experience dancing. If that’s their aim they will have fun no matter what happens. Just dance and be happy. For the rest, dancing can help them achieve other goals, such as meeting new people. When their goal is to become more social, then dancing is the ultimate ice breaker.
Instantly impressive, dancing can convince people to give others that all important chance to show them how great they really are. So what do they do when they get that chance? When the dance ends and their partner is smiling, out of breath and leading them off the floor they have a few moments to use to their advantage. Compliment them (if they haven’t complimented already) and ask a few general questions about themselves. Ask where they learned to dance. Dancing is what they both have in common, so use it! - An ice breaker is simply a topic they know they can connect on. Listen and add your own input when asked.
Next thing you know you’ll be chatting the night away! And what is there about a new night club about to come into existence in Mililani? I have not heard anything about it for almost a month. I am here to help, specially if they don't have a Web site. Fortunately they are the ones to make the decision, I help or I bother. Ha! It has been very carefully explained to me and I understand perfectly. I am limited physically but with a little help I can blog. Some potential contributors have their own way of doing it and it must be respected. We should respect everyone's opinions.
"Social dancers believe that you can’t write about what it means
to dance by watching from the bleachers.”
Instantly impressive, dancing can convince people to give others that all important chance to show them how great they really are. So what do they do when they get that chance? When the dance ends and their partner is smiling, out of breath and leading them off the floor they have a few moments to use to their advantage. Compliment them (if they haven’t complimented already) and ask a few general questions about themselves. Ask where they learned to dance. Dancing is what they both have in common, so use it! - An ice breaker is simply a topic they know they can connect on. Listen and add your own input when asked.
Next thing you know you’ll be chatting the night away! And what is there about a new night club about to come into existence in Mililani? I have not heard anything about it for almost a month. I am here to help, specially if they don't have a Web site. Fortunately they are the ones to make the decision, I help or I bother. Ha! It has been very carefully explained to me and I understand perfectly. I am limited physically but with a little help I can blog. Some potential contributors have their own way of doing it and it must be respected. We should respect everyone's opinions.
"Social dancers believe that how people treat them is their "karma,"
How social dancers react is theirs."
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