Da Rules?

The night club dancers have rules of their own which may differ slightly from the ordinary social dancer, They do not like hanging around negative people complainers, Negative people are bad news because they wallow in their problems and fail to focus on solutions. They want people to join their pity party so that they can feel better about themselves. People often feel pressure to listen to complainers because they don’t want to be seen as callous or rude, but there’s a fine line between lending a sympathetic ear and getting sucked into their negative emotional spirals.

 "Social dancers, dance, even if they have nowhere to do it but in their living room."

They can avoid getting drawn in only by setting limits and distancing themselves when necessary. Think of it this way: If a person were smoking, would you sit there all afternoon inhaling the second-hand smoke? You’d distance yourself, and you should do the same with negative people. A great way to set limits is to ask them how they intend to fix their problems. The complainer will then either quiet down or redirect the conversation in a productive direction.You should strive to surround yourself with people who inspire you, people who make you want to be better.

"I'll Remember You" by The Makaha Sons of Ni'ihau

You go to a night club to dance, drink and enjoy yourself. There are people who drag you down? Why do you allow them to be a part of your life? Anyone who makes you feel worthless, anxious, or uninspired is wasting your time and, quite possibly, making you more like them. Life is too short to associate with people like this. Cut them loose and watch your emotional intelligence soar. As dancers we intend to have ourselves a ball.

"Social dancers think that jumping at several opportunities may get them

there more quickly than waiting for one big one to come along."